David had shown remarkable faith and restraint. He rescued the people of Keilah, refused to take vengeance against Saul, and repeatedly sought the Lord’s direction. But in 1 Samuel 25, a personal insult from a man named Nabal nearly leads David into a terrible sin.
Why could David show such restraint toward a man trying to kill him, yet respond so quickly in anger toward someone who insulted him?
In this week’s study of 1 Samuel, we examine the danger of personal offense, how anger can distort our judgment, and why another person’s wrongdoing never justifies our own.
Drawing from Proverbs and other passages of Scripture, we’re reminded that the space between an offense and our response is where wisdom must do its work.
The central lesson: We cannot allow what someone else has done to us to determine who we become in response.
Scripture: 1 Samuel 25:1–22










